The Essentials: "Something to Drink, Anyone?"

As we hit the halfway point of the summer, I have quickly come to the realization that for most people in the South there are only a few things that this sticky, humid climate are good for: a reason for women to traipse around in next to nothing, a ruse to legitimize the idea of throwing those infamous 'Hurricane" parties, and the license to drink after 2 P.M.

But before you venture to your nearest grocery store to grab the usual case of Bud Light and ever-so-nifty Styrofoam coolers, sit down and reconsider your options with these no-frills essentials. Bottoms up!

1. Long Drink Tumblers by Riedel (Set of 2), $67, tableandhome.com



These glasses are not only stylish and a great companion to your ever-growing glass collection (you do have one, right?), but they are also serve as a multi-purpose tumbler in the sense that you can make drinks that usually require a highball or you can opt for just a short cocktail kind of elixir with the same glass. Essentially, you need these. Well, at least until you can bump up to a more extensive, glassware roster.

Warning: If you have roommates who are prone to using your newfound glasses for everyday wear-and-tear, please invest in some new roommates, for your own sake.

2. Hendrick's Gin, $30 (750 ml), hendricksgin.com



I must admit, I was never really a huge gin fan until I took a trip to New York a few months back and had a Hendrick’s variation of the gimlet at the Roosevelt Hotel. After that, the rest was practically history. Speaking of which, Hendrick’s gin has a very rich past that started all the way across the pond in Scotland during the 19th century. Hendrick’s has strong hints of both juniper and cucumber (yes, cucumber) which makes this spirit worthy of more than just a half-and-half of store-brand orange juice.

3. Martini and Rossi Asti Spumante, $11, martini.com



Keep a bottle or two of this on chill at all times, you know, for those small victories in life. This sweet spumante is perfect for those who aren’t privy to the dozens and dozens of high-end champagnes that are on the market. Don’t worry, I don’t judge…

4. Chivas Regal 12-Year Old Scotch, $35 (750 ml), chivas.com



Do not be intimidated at the idea of indulging in a spirit that is probably older than many of the things that you own, that just means that this scotch is delightfully aged and mature (read: delicious). Scotch of this caliber should be consumed both neat and slow because it’s not everyday you’ll have the opportunity to sit back, relax and enjoy something this uncommon.

5. Mr. Boston's Bartender's and Party Guide, $10, amazon.com



Take an afternoon and flip through the pages of the book that has been the Bible for bartenders from some of the most well-known establishments in the country since 1935. Maybe after a little practice you, too, can shake and stir ‘em like some of the best...maybe...

-BJW

DubiousEndorses: The 'I'm So Chris-py" Blog

I don’t normally do this but…

As much as I would love to forever inhabit this heavenly slice of the World Wide Web, I’ve realized that the only way the masses are ever going to get their hand on that good, wholesome, Dubious-type advice is to branch out to my fellow bloggers.

Speaking of which, I stumbled upon one such individual who willingly admits that he is “just tryin’ to get famous on the internet”…Duly noted, Chris.

This Central Jersey native’s musings include everything from a shout out to an up-and-coming remix impresario from Canada to a mini-war, of sorts, with the lead singer of the group who sang about a quaint, little town in Massachusetts—whom he just so happened to go to college with.

Either way, this guy is definitely one to keep a look out for if you’re in search of a good laugh, a promising new act or even the occasional ‘friend fight’.

-BJW

DubiousCraves: The John Varvatos Henley

John Varvatos Henley, $109, shop.nordstrom.com

Aside from the fact that Mr. Varvatos is probably one of my more admired designers, it has been scientifically proven that women love a man in a long-sleeved henley shirt.

There is a certain, rakish c’est la vie attitude that comes with wearing one and not only are they practical enough to wear during those cooler summer nights, but they have enough of a trim and stylish appeal that they can be paired with a good pair of jeans, desert boots and a relaxed jacket for more ‘dressed-up’ affairs.

Give yourself a reason to show off those summer workout sessions and leave a button (or two) open for good measure. Oh, and don’t brandish a full-waxed chest for this one; there’s something almost pre-pubescent about the ability to see one’s reflection off of themselves.


-BJW

New Music Review: Hot Stylz - "Lookin' Boy"

Granted, there are a plethora of things wrong with this song that I could easily point out with my ears closed, but just when you think the cons far outweigh the pros, I am reminded of the few things that truly bring people of all walks of life together, albeit temporarily: Insults.

No, I’m not talking about East Coast against West Coast or Brittney Spears versus…the world; I am talking about the Dozens. An old-school game that people from very urban communities played where the objective was simple: Embarrass your opponent with the best insults in your arsenal; think ‘Yo Momma’ but without Wilmer, or MTV for that matter.

Hot Stylz feat. Yung Joc - Lookin' Boy music video. Hilarity ensues.

It was good, clean fun that hardly ever resulted in any kind of violence—perhaps a black eye or two if you dropped an infamous ‘Momma’ joke—but all in all, an entertaining time.

This track shows me that there is hope in a world where it seems as though rappers are becoming more sensitive than the soccer moms that admonish their music.

-BJW

DubiousTrend: The Evolution of the 'Shirt Emblem'

Since the dawn of time, there has always been this nagging obsession with labels and the things that we do (and claim) with said labels. This has never been more apparent than with the ubiquitous polo shirt emblem:

Original Penguin (top) and Lacoste have always been two of the few clothes makers that have kept a rather conservative stance on the size and content of their emblems.

Over time, though, this fashionable, little understatement has evolved and taken many shapes and faces to a point where more attention is being paid towards the 1-by-1 inch space occupying the top left of your chest than the rest of the shirt:

More 'creative' versions (and parodies) of traditional emblems are becoming almost a dime a dozen and feature everything from Port-a-Potties to malt liquor (top, right).

With that said, I propose that we as a society band together and fight for that ever-shrinking piece of real estate in our closets better known as: “The rest of my damn polo”. Who's with me?

Ralph Lauren gives us the best example of gross, emblem over-coverage. The last one is half the size of his bicep already!

-BJW

The Manual: Suits, For All Occasions...

Bottom line: Men, especially younger men, have this misconception that when it comes to formal attire, the basic rules to dressing one’s self properly take a back seat to an individual’s ‘unique and eclectic’ personal style. “It makes me who I am!” they say to me, “I’m going to make my personality shine through my off-beat, wardrobe choices!”

…Great…How about we don’t do all of that and just say we did?

Instead, here are a few of quick and simple solutions to that age old conundrum: What suit am I going to wear?

1. Seasonal: 100% Linen Suit. Period.

2. Bang For Your Buck: Nautica Wool Suit, $270, nautica.com

Wear it with a polo shirt. Oxford cotton, perhaps? No matter how you wear it, this suit is an all-around, multi-purpose tool that can take you from the office (or internship), straight to the nearest beachside cantina in a matter of minutes.

3. A Lifelong Investment: RL Black Label 'Anthony Garbardine' Suit, $1,795, ralphlauren.com

Money should not be an object when it comes to acquiring an impeccable taste. Suits are definitely no exception to this rule. This is the perfect mainstay for your formal wardrobe. Just make sure that as your body type changes, so does the fit and cut of your suit. In other words: Don’t skimp out on a good, damn near great, tailor to help you keep up with your ever-changing…ahem…style.

4. Stepping Out: Banana Republic Glen Plaid Suit, $775, bananarepublic.com

There is something very ‘James Bond’ (pre-Pierce Brosnan), about a 3-piece suit. Something that definitely says, “Shaken not stirred”. You can comfortably wear one out for a rousing night of espionage or an elegant dinner with the missus.

Changes...

New look, same great taste...

More to come...

-BJW